crossing wires

Getting messages tangled

Crossing wires means miscommunicating or misunderstanding each other, from the image of telephone or electrical lines getting tangled and connecting wrong parties or circuits.

When people get their wires crossed, they're operating on different assumptions or information: We must have crossed wires—I thought we were meeting at noon.

The phrase suggests the confusion is mutual and accidental rather than anyone's fault.

Related

misunderstanding · confusion · arc · cognitive dissonance · misperception · short circuit · spark · fuse · blown fuse · interpersonal conflict · misinterpretation · interference · power surge · electrical fire · tangle · tangled up · lost in translation · communication breakdown

Opposites
communication clarity

crossing wiresmutual understanding

Shared agreement between parties

getting through · crystal clear · connecting · clarity · comprehension

coordination/synchronization

crossing wireson the same wavelength

Mutually understanding without effort

coordination · in harmony · synchronization · coordinating · meshing

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G