count your blessings

Recognize your luck

Count your blessings means to focus on the good things in your life rather than dwelling on problems or complaints.

The phrase implies that gratitude requires deliberate attention—you must enumerate what you have rather than what you lack.

Often used as gentle advice to someone who seems ungrateful or dispirited: I know the job isn't perfect, but count your blessings—at least you have one.

Related

good fortune · lucky · gifts · grace · abundance · reflect · humble · prayers · grateful · silver lining · glass half full · look on the bright side · cherish · contentment · mindful · thanks · bountiful · harvest

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Opposites
gratitude vs. ingratitude

count your blessingscomplain

Express discontent verbally

gripe · whine · grumble · take for granted · ingratitude

acceptance vs. resentment

count your blessingshold a grudge

Maintain lasting resentment

brood · stew

optimistic vs. pessimistic framing

count your blessingscatastrophize

Mentally magnify potential disasters

brood · doom and gloom · woe is me · cry over spilt milk

Family

count, counts, counted, counting, counter, counters, recount, recounts, recounted

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G