come ons

Enticements for suckers

Come ons are things meant to attract or entice—typically flirtatious gestures or seductive remarks: She ignored his clumsy come ons at the bar.

The term also covers promotional lures: The free trial is just a come on to get you subscribed.

Both senses share the idea of drawing someone in, often with skepticism about sincerity.

Also spelled come-ons.

flirtation

pickup lines

Flirtatious conversation starters

suggestive remarks · innuendo · winks · teasing · coquetry · playfulness · suggestiveness · flattery · wooing · courtship

enticement

lure

Thing that tempts

sweetener · carrot · hook · draw · promotional offer · deal · discount · teaser · loss leader · free trial

deception

ploy

Calculated deceptive tactic

  • trickDeliberate deception
  • ruseDeliberate act of deception
  • schemeCalculated strategy, often secretive

scam · hustle · con · gimmick · trap · snare · decoy · false promise · manipulation · misleading claim

Opposites
romantic/sexual intent

come onsrejections

Formal refusals given

rebuffs · brush-offs · cold shoulders · dismissals · snubs

sincerity

come onstrue feelings

Authentic internal emotional state

social engagement style

come onswithdrawals

Removal of deposited funds

avoidance · reserve · restraint · standoffishness · aloofness

Family

come, comes, came, coming, comer, comers, onward, onwards

Familiarity
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