come for

Arrive to get

To come for someone is to confront, attack, or criticize them aggressively: Don't come for me unless I send for you.

The phrase implies targeted hostility—someone actively seeking out another to challenge or undermine them.

In internet culture, it often describes public callouts or takedowns: She came for him on Twitter and didn't hold back.

The older, literal sense means simply to arrive in order to collect someone or something: I'll come for you at eight.

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bear down on · set upon · approach · attack · grab · confront · go after · target · take aim · hunt · track down · seek out · seize · criticize · call out · take to task · accuse · visit

Opposites
aggression/pursuit

come fordefend

Protect from harm

shy away from · protect · leave alone · spare · shield

retrieval direction

come fordrop off

Convey and leave

deliver · bring to · leave behind · send away · dispatch

attendance/participation

come forskip

To deliberately exclude

miss · avoid · stay away from · decline

Family

come, for, comfort, coming, comfortable, came, forthcoming, comes, comfortably

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG