casting the first stone

Judging others first

Casting the first stone means being the first to criticize or condemn someone, especially when the accuser is equally guilty.

The phrase comes from the biblical story where Jesus challenges a crowd about to stone a woman for adultery: "Let him who is without sin cast the first stone." It typically appears in negative constructions: I'm not one to cast the first stone, but his behavior was outrageous.

Related

pointing fingers · criticism · scapegoating · mercy · hypocrisy · moral high ground · holier than thou · sinlessness · finger-pointing · public shaming · scripture · judgmentalism · without sin · hostility · mob mentality · justice · repentance · parable

Opposites
moral judgment of others

casting the first stoneforgiving

Inclined to pardon offenses

pardoning · forbearance · live and let live · excusing · clemency

self-awareness

casting the first stoneself-reflection

Examining one's own mind

practicing what one preaches · introspection · self-examination · humility · walking the walk

initiating conflict

casting the first stonekeeping the peace

Maintaining order and calm

biting one's tongue · walking away · de-escalation · letting bygones be bygones · burying the hatchet

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G