butt heads

Clash over differences

To butt heads is to clash or come into conflict, especially through stubborn disagreement: The two executives constantly butt heads over budget priorities.

The image comes from rams or goats ramming their heads together in confrontation.

The phrase usually implies ongoing friction rather than a single argument.

conflict

clash

Violent disagreement or collision

quarrel · disagreement · argument · face-off · showdown · standoff · friction · tension · opposition · contention

disagree

argue

Verbally oppose another's view

  • debateFormal argument on issues
  • disputeVerbal clash over differences
  • dissentDisagreement with authority

differ · oppose · contend · challenge · object · contradict · counter · rebut · spar · bicker

stubbornness

obstinate

Firmly refusing to yield

mulish · unyielding · inflexible · intransigent · uncompromising · willful · adamant · immovable · dogged · tenacious

Categories
Opposites
interpersonal conflict vs. harmony

butt headsget along

Maintain friendly relations

see eye to eye · agree · harmonize · mesh · click

opposition vs. alignment of purpose

butt headscooperate

Work jointly with others

collaborate · work together · join forces · team up · pull together

confrontation vs. avoidance

butt headsback down

Withdraw from a stance

let it go · turn the other cheek · keep the peace · go along to get along · yield

Family

butthead

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG