go along to get along

Appease for peace

Go along to get along expresses the strategy of conforming to others' wishes or opinions in order to maintain harmony and avoid conflict.

The phrase often carries a slightly negative connotation, suggesting that someone sacrifices their principles or genuine views for the sake of social ease.

She learned early in her career to go along to get along, even when she disagreed with her boss.

The expression can describe both individual behavior and broader institutional cultures where dissent is discouraged.

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keeping the peace · conformity · going with the flow · self-censorship · pliability · don't rock the boat · appeasement · fake it till one makes it · playing nice · compliance · groupthink · team player · rationalization · submissiveness · social harmony · save face · deference · collectivism

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Opposites
conformity vs. principled resistance

go along to get alongtake a stand

Publicly commit to a position

hold one's ground · civil disobedience · conscientious objection · dissent · stick to one's guns

conflict avoidance vs. confrontation

go along to get alongrock the boat

Disturb a stable situation

make waves · stir the pot · pick a fight · call out · confront

social accommodation vs. authenticity

go along to get alongspeak one's mind

State opinions openly

tell it like it is · keep it real · wear one's heart on one's sleeve · let the chips fall where they may · damn the torpedoes

Family

along, longer, longest, longish, lengthen, length, getting

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Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G