blow one's load

Finish too soon

Blow one's load means to ejaculate—a vulgar but common expression.

By extension, it means to expend all one's resources or energy at once, often prematurely or unwisely: Don't blow your load in the first quarter; pace yourself.

The metaphor of sudden, complete release applies to spending money, using up ammunition, or exhausting arguments too early.

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climax · discharge · emission · orgasm · relief · lose control · all at once · burnout · anticipation · exhaustion · premature · too soon · haste · buildup · release · tension · depletion · expend

Opposites
sexual climax timing

blow one's loadedge

Boundary or sharpness

hold back · tantric sex · abstain · withhold · blue balls

resource expenditure

blow one's loadhold back

Prevent forward movement

ration · pace oneself · keep one's powder dry · bide one's time · conserve

self-control

blow one's loadhold it together

Maintain emotional stability

contain oneself · hold one's horses · stay cool

Family

blow, blows, blown, blowing, blower, ones, load, loads, loaded

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated R