bent out of shape

Angry about nothing

Bent out of shape means upset, annoyed, or offended—typically over something minor: Don't get bent out of shape about it, he was just joking.

The phrase suggests emotional distortion from a calm baseline, like metal warped from its proper form.

Often used dismissively to imply someone is overreacting.

upset

hurt

Cause or feel pain

disappointed · sensitive · troubled · distressed · dismayed · affronted · insulted · grieved · pained · unhappy

angry

irate

Extremely angry

incensed · infuriated · fuming · outraged · seething · hot-headed · steamed · boiling · wrathful · choleric

deformed

warped

Bent out of true

crooked · buckled · crumpled · mangled · disfigured · gnarled · malformed · skewed · misaligned · irregular

stressed

tense

Strained or nervous

overwhelmed · burned out · exhausted · worried · nervous · on edge · frazzled · wound up · worked up · uptight

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emotional state

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Free from agitation

serene · tranquil · relaxed · composed · unperturbed

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Known to kids · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G