backchanneling
Conversational support signals
Backchanneling is the practice of giving verbal or nonverbal feedback while someone else is speaking—nods, "uh-huh," "right," "mmm"—that signals attention without taking a conversational turn.
It encourages the speaker to continue.
Cultural norms vary: Her constant backchanneling made him feel heard, though some find it interruptive.
Also spelled backchaneling or as two words.
Moving head affirmatively
- eye contactDirect visual connection
- smilingDisplaying warmth facially
- head tiltingSideways neck movement
- leaning inTilting body forward
mirroring · gesturing · facial expressions · raised eyebrows · frowning · head shaking · thumbs up · gaze
Focused, responsive attention to speech
- paraphrasingRestating in new words
- summarizingCondensing to main points
- clarifyingMaking something understandable
- reflectingBouncing back light
echoing · prompting · encouraging · validating · acknowledging · repeating · restating · continuers
uh-huh
Informal vocal agreement
okay · yes · I see · got it · sure · exactly · indeed · go on · really · interesting
nodding
Moving head affirmatively
- eye contactDirect visual connection
- smilingDisplaying warmth facially
- head tiltingSideways neck movement
leaning in · mirroring · gesturing · facial expressions · raised eyebrows · frowning · head shaking · thumbs up · gaze · blinking
active listening
Focused, responsive attention to speech
- paraphrasingRestating in new words
- summarizingCondensing to main points
- clarifyingMaking something understandable
reflecting · echoing · prompting · encouraging · validating · acknowledging · repeating · restating · continuers · rapport-building
backchannelingmonologuing
Extended solo speaking
speechmaking · lecturing · turn-taking · orating · interrupting
backchannelingdisengagement
Withdrawal from involvement
ignoring · tuning out · stonewalling · unresponsiveness · dead silence