Jody

Gender-neutral given name

Jody is a name for the man back home who sleeps with a soldier's wife or girlfriend while he's deployed.

The term originated in military cadences and remains common in armed forces culture: Jody's got your girl and gone.

The name personifies anxieties about infidelity during long separations.

Also spelled Jodie or Jodi.

military

cadence

Rhythmic pulse or pattern

chant · rhythm · boots · infantry · drill · platoon · formation · soldier · training · call-and-response

infidelity

cheater

One who acts dishonestly

affair · unfaithful · cuckold · sweetheart · deployment · loneliness · heartbreak · suspicion · jealousy · temptation

name

Jordan

Levantine nation or name

  • JamieGiven name, either gender
  • JesseHebrew-origin masculine name
  • JackieShortened given name

Jaden · Cody · Brody · Judy · Julie · Josephine · Jolene · Joan · Josie · Jay

unisex

androgynous

Neither distinctly male nor female

ambiguous · versatile · interchangeable · inclusive · diminutive · crossover · modern · American · informal · casual

Opposites
name formality

JodyElizabeth

Feminine given name

Victoria · Alexander · Margaret · Bartholomew · Constantine

military cadence archetype

JodyGI

U.S. military slang

soldier · faithful wife · Penelope · military spouse · combat veteran

Phrases
Family

Jodie

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G