wheedles

Persuades through flattery

Wheedles means to coax or persuade through flattery, charm, or persistent gentle pressure.

Someone who wheedles uses soft words and ingratiation rather than direct demands: She wheedled her way into the exclusive party, He wheedled a raise out of his boss.

The word carries a slightly negative connotation—wheedling is manipulative, even if harmless.

persuasion

coaxes

Persuades through gentle urging

charms · beguiles · soft-soaps · butters up · schmoozes · smooth-talks · entices · seduces · wins over · sways

childlike

begs

Asks humbly or desperately

  • pleadsUrgently requests or beseeches
  • whinesComplains in high-pitched tones
  • poutsSulky facial expressions

nags · pesters · peevish · sulks · implores · beseeches · entreats · supplicates · puppy eyes · tantrums

extraction

extracts

Removes or concentrated essences

elicits · gets · procures · wrests · squeezes out · pries · maneuvers · angles for · teases out · draws out

Categories
Opposites
directness of approach

wheedlesdemands

Forceful requests or requirements

insists · declares · asserts · announces · levels with

force and coercion

wheedlescoerces

Obtains by intimidation

forces · commands · demands · threatens · bullies

giving vs. extracting

wheedlesoffers

Proposals for acceptance

bestows · grants · provides · donates · yields

Family

wheedle, wheedling, wheedled, wheedler

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G