soft-soaps

Butters someone up

Soft-soaps is the verb form of soft-soap, meaning to flatter or cajole someone, usually to get something from them: He soft-soaps the boss whenever he wants time off.

The term comes from the literal soft soap—a semi-liquid soap that's gentler than hard bar soap—suggesting a smooth, slippery approach to persuasion.

flattery

cajoles

Persuades by flattery

butters up · schmoozes · blandishes · fawns · ingratiates · smooth-talks · compliments · praises · charms · persuades

cleansing

lathers

Creates soapy bubbles

moisturizing · mild · soapsuds · foams · bathroom · handwashing · skincare · emollient · toiletries · creamy

Opposites
communication style

soft-soapstells it like it is

Speaks with brutal candor

berates · levels with · rebukes · chastises · lambasts

persuasion method

soft-soapsstrong-arms

Coerces using force

bulldozes · browbeats · coerces · intimidates · pressures

Family

soft, soaps, soap, softer, softest, softly, softness, soften, softens

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G