cajoles

Wheedles with charm

To cajole is to coax or persuade someone through flattery, gentle persistence, or sweet talk.

The word suggests working around resistance rather than confronting it directly: She cajoled him into lending her the car.

Cajoling implies a light touch—more wheedling than demanding, more charm than force.

coaxing

wheedling

Persuading through flattery

sweet-talking · smooth-talking · beguiling · inveigling · enticing · encouraging · prodding · prompting · pleading · beseeching

flattery

compliments

Expressions of admiration

blandishments · soft-soap · blarney · ingratiation · sycophancy · stroking · praise · charming · smarm · flannel

enticement

tempting

Arousing desire or interest

alluring · seducing · tantalizing · beckoning · wooing · drawing · hooking · sweetening · dangling · inducing

manipulation

scheming

Crafty and calculating

wiles · cunning · craftiness · machinations · calculating · exploiting · playing · working · angling · engineering

Opposites
persuasion method

cajolescoerces

Obtains by intimidation

forces · bullies · compels · intimidates · threatens

emotional tone

cajolesberates

Scolds severely

scolds · harangues · chastises · reprimands · rebukes

interpersonal manner

cajolesmenaces

Endangers or intimidates

terrorizes · harasses · berates · badgers · harangues

Family

cajole, cajoling, cajoled, cajolery, cajoler, cajolers, cajolement

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G