went with the flow

Didn't resist circumstances

Went with the flow is the past tense of go with the flow—to accept circumstances without resistance, following wherever events lead rather than asserting preferences or fighting conditions: I didn't have strong opinions, so I just went with the flow.

The image is of floating downstream rather than swimming against the current.

Related

balance · roll with the punches · surrender · resilience · versatility · play it by ear · improvisation · pliability · path of least resistance · submission · fluidity · acquiescence · equilibrium · nonchalance · adaptability · drift · tolerance · yielding

Opposites
conformity vs. resistance

went with the flowswam upstream

Propelled against current

pushed back · resisted · rebelled · stood one's ground · rocked the boat

passivity vs. agency

went with the flowtook charge

Began directing things

took the bull by the horns · took the reins · asserted oneself · took matters into one's own hands · set the pace

flexibility vs. rigidity

went with the flowdug in one's heels

Refused to yield

stood one's ground · put one's foot down · drew a line in the sand · insisted · held out

Family

went, underwent, flow, flows, flowed, flowing, flower, inflow, outflow

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G