upsetting

Making someone distraught

Upsetting describes something that causes emotional distress or disturbance: The news was upsetting to everyone.

It can range from mildly disappointing to deeply disturbing.

The word also has a technical sense in metalworking—upsetting is the process of shortening and thickening metal by hammering or pressing on its end.

emotional

distressing

Causing anguish or worry

painful · heartbreaking · devastating · traumatic · saddening · disheartening · dismaying · grievous · sorrowful · anguishing

unsettling

disconcerting

Causing unease or confusion

startling · shocking · alarming · perturbing · rattling · discomfiting · off-putting · chilling · eerie · creepy

disruptive

derailing

Going off course

unsettling · turbulent · disorderly · interruptive · intrusive · obstructive · interfering · hindering · complicating · confounding

overturning

toppling

Causing to collapse

upending · inverting · overbalancing · tumbling · spilling · keeling · rolling · tilting · unseating · dislodging

annoying

irritating

Causing mild frustration

maddening · exasperating · vexing · irksome · bothersome · galling · provoking · grating · nettlesome · rankling

stressful

nerve-wracking

Causing extreme anxiety

draining · taxing · pressuring · straining · exhausting · fraught · agitating · distressful · burdensome · demanding

Categories
Opposites
emotional effect

upsettingcomforting

Giving emotional ease

reassuring · soothing · calming · consoling · heartwarming

stability/equilibrium

upsettingstabilizing

Making firm or constant

steadying · settling · balancing · grounding · restoring

Phrases
Family

upsettingly

Familiarity
Top 10,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G