thrown shade

Delivered subtle criticism

Thrown shade is the past participle of throw shade, meaning to have directed subtle criticism or disrespect toward someone.

The phrase originated in Black and Latino LGBTQ communities before entering mainstream use: She had thrown shade at him all evening.

The criticism is usually indirect—a look, a backhanded compliment, pointed silence—rather than open confrontation.

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the library is open · sarcasm · double entendre · backhanded compliment · rivalry · side-eye · pop culture · urban slang · conflict · passive-aggression · meme culture · banter · teasing · diss track · social hierarchy · roasting · insecurity · jab

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directness of criticism

thrown shadecalled out

Vocally summoned or criticized

blasted · told off · dragged · dressed down · ripped into

valence of social expression

thrown shadepraised

Expressed approval of

complimented · hyped up · gassed up · bigged up · endorsed

social positioning

thrown shadeembraced

Held someone warmly

included · honored · validated · acknowledged

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