there, there

Soothing spoken comfort

There, there is a soothing expression of comfort, typically addressed to someone crying or upset.

The phrase acknowledges distress while gently signaling that things will be all right: There, there, it's going to be okay.

Often accompanied by physical comfort like patting or hugging.

Related

don't cry · touch · hug · warm embrace · shoulder to cry on · dear · pat · pat on back · tut-tut · compassion · soothing · validation · lullaby · soft voice · tenderness · reassurance · solace · active listening

Opposites
emotional response to distress

there, thereget over it

Accept and proceed

suck it up · man up · deal with it · nobody cares · cry me a river

intent toward the distressed

there, theregood riddance

Joy at removal

you deserve it · suffer · ha ha · too bad · salt in the wound

Family

there, their, theirs

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G