get over it

Stop dwelling already

Get over it is a dismissive command telling someone to stop dwelling on something—to move past a disappointment, grievance, or emotional setback.

The phrase implies the listener is making too much of the situation: It happened three years ago—get over it.

Often blunt or unsympathetic, it suggests the speaker has lost patience with continued complaint or self-pity.

Related

recover · shake off · bounce back · brush off · snap out of it · cope · acceptance · closure · resilience · grin and bear it · tough luck · suck it up · deal with it · roll with it · water off a duck · bygones · dust yourself off · chin up

Categories
Opposites
emotional processing approach

get over itruminate

Think deeply and repeatedly

brood · lean into it · stew

validation stance

get over ittake your time

Proceed without urgency

coddle · let it all out · there there · validate · I hear you

coping directive

get over itbear a grudge

Maintain lasting ill will

carry a torch

Family

get, over, gets, getting, getter, getaway, go-getter

Familiarity
Top 10,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G