deal with it

Accept the situation

Deal with it is a dismissive command telling someone to accept an unpleasant situation rather than complain about it.

The phrase acknowledges that something is annoying or unwelcome but asserts that nothing will change: Yeah, the music's loud—deal with it.

It gained particular currency as internet slang, often paired with images of sunglasses dropping onto a face, conveying smug indifference to objections.

Related
  • copeHandle difficulties adequately
  • handlePart for gripping
  • manageDirect or handle successfully
  • acceptConsent to receive
  • toughDurable and strong

tough luck · suck it up · man up · move on · keep it moving · face it · get over it · sunglasses · meme · dismiss · shrug · whatever · brush off · resilience · grit · endure · grin and bear it · confront

Categories
Opposites
emotional response to difficulty

deal with itdenial

Refusal to accept reality

avoidance · fall apart · have a meltdown · crumble · break down

coping strategy

deal with itescape

Flight from captivity

evade · look the other way · flee · pass the buck · deflect

interpersonal stance

deal with itcoddle

Overindulge or poach gently

there there · poor baby · mollycoddle · pamper · enable

Family

deal, deals, dealt, dealing, dealer, dealers, dealership, dealerships

Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G