talking at

Speaking without listening

Talking at someone means speaking to them without genuine exchange—delivering words in their direction without listening or inviting response.

The phrase implies a one-sided dynamic where the speaker dominates: He wasn't having a conversation with me, he was talking at me.

It contrasts with talking *to* or *with*, which suggest actual communication.

Related

frustration · tone-deafness · pontificating · holding forth · power imbalance · disconnection · steamrolling · alienation · dictating · disregard · not listening · deaf ears · repetition · disengagement · shut down · preaching · authority · imperatives

Opposites
communication directionality

talking atdialoguing

Engaging in discussion

discussing · two-way communication · dialogue · back-and-forth · listening

speaker stance toward listener

talking atdrawing out

Extracting or prolonging

communicative silence

talking atkeeping quiet

Remaining silent

saying nothing

Family

talk, talking, talked, talks, talker, talkers, talkative, talky

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G