taking umbrage

Bristling at insult

Taking umbrage is feeling offended or resentful, often at a perceived slight or insult.

The phrase suggests wounded pride or dignity: She took umbrage at the suggestion that her work was derivative.

Someone who takes umbrage may be justifiably upset or oversensitive—the phrase itself is neutral on whether the offense was real or imagined.

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hurt feelings · bruised ego · indignation · scowl · pique · huff · ruffled feathers · conflict · anger · bristle · misunderstanding · grievance · sore point · snub · insult · affront · feel slighted · defensiveness

Opposites
social reaction strategy

taking umbrageforgiving

Inclined to pardon offenses

overlooking · letting it go · excusing · pardoning

Family

take, takes, taken, taker, taking, umbrage, umbra, umbral, umbrella

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G