take the liberty

Proceed without permission

To take the liberty is to do something without asking permission first, often because you assume the other person won't mind or because you believe the action is justified.

The phrase typically appears in polite formulations that acknowledge a minor breach of etiquette: I took the liberty of ordering for you or I hope you don't mind, but I took the liberty of reading your draft.

It can also be used sarcastically when someone has clearly overstepped.

Related

push one's luck · run the risk · apology · assume · initiate · proactivity · boldness · commence · permission · consideration · assertiveness · imposition · overstep · cross the line · step out of line · rashness · consent · authorization

Opposites
social propriety and deference

take the libertystand on ceremony

Insist on strict formality

know one's place · hold back · err on the side of caution · stay in one's lane

initiative and restraint

take the libertyhold back

Prevent forward movement

refrain · wait one's turn · stay in one's lane · abstain · bite one's tongue

Family

take, takes, taken, taking, taker, takers, uptake, intake, retake

Familiarity
Top 100,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G