suck up

Ingratiate oneself obsequiously

To suck up is to curry favor through excessive flattery or obsequious behavior: He's always sucking up to the boss.

A suck-up is a person who does this habitually.

The image suggests drawing something toward oneself—attention, approval, advantage—through undignified means.

The phrase carries contempt for both the behavior and the person engaging in it.

ingratiate

brownnose

Excessive flattery for advantage

  • curry favorSeek approval through flattery
  • fawnYoung deer, or flatter
  • toadyObsequious flatterer seeking favor

bootlick · kowtow · grovel · apple-polish · schmooze · pander · sycophant · flatterer · yes-man · lackey

Categories
Opposites
social behavior toward authority

suck updefy

Resist or challenge openly

rebel · stand up to · talk back · challenge · push back

authenticity of expression

suck upspeak one's mind

State opinions openly

be honest · tell it like it is · be authentic

social positioning

suck upput down

Insulting remark meant to diminish

look down on · lord over · condescend · belittle · disparage

Family

up, suck, sucker, sucking, suckers, suckle, sucked, sucks, suckling

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Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG