step on toes

Cause unintended offense

To step on someone's toes is to offend or encroach on their territory, especially by interfering in matters they consider their responsibility: I don't want to step on anyone's toes, but this process needs to change.

The image is of literally treading on someone's feet—an invasion of personal space that causes discomfort.

Often appears as step on toes or tread on toes.

Related

hurt feelings · sensitive · sore spot · bruise · bruised ego · ego · territory · encroach · feelings · rub the wrong way · insult · slight · social faux pas · delicate · trespass · ruffle feathers · cross the line · awkward

Categories
Opposites
interpersonal boundary respect

step on toesstay in one's lane

Stick to your expertise

mind one's own business · know one's place · keep one's distance · tread carefully · walk on eggshells

social harmony vs. friction

step on toeskeep the peace

Prevent discord or conflict

make nice · build bridges · pour oil on troubled waters · mend fences · play well with others

assertiveness vs. deference

step on toesdefer

Delay or submit

yield · accommodate · stand back · hold back · bite one's tongue

Family

step, steps, stepped, stepping, stepper, steppers, toe, toes, toed

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G