stand on one's dignity

Insist on respect

To stand on one's dignity is to insist on being treated with the respect one believes one deserves, often in situations where others are being more casual or familiar.

The phrase typically carries a slightly negative connotation, suggesting stiffness or excessive formality.

Someone who stands on their dignity may refuse to participate in activities they consider beneath them or take offense at perceived slights.

He stood on his dignity and refused to answer the reporter's impertinent questions.

Related

pride · high horse · courtesy · self-possession · saving face · resentment · embarrassment · protocol · punctiliousness · autonomy · personal space · haughtiness · honor · moral high ground · self-assertion · umbrage · defiance · self-regard

Opposites
self-importance and formality

stand on one's dignityunbend

Straighten or become informal

let one's hair down · stoop · condescend

self-regard and humor

stand on one's dignityplay the fool

Feign stupidity deliberately

take a joke · roll with the punches

social flexibility

stand on one's dignityswallow one's pride

Accept wounded ego gracefully

muck in · eat humble pie · roll up one's sleeves · get one's hands dirty · let one's hair down

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G