silent treatments

Deliberate communicative withholding

Silent treatments is the plural of silent treatment, the practice of refusing to speak to someone as a form of punishment or manipulation.

It's a passive-aggressive tactic in relationships, where one person withholds communication to express displeasure or exert control: She gave him the silent treatment for days after the argument.

The phrase almost always appears in the singular.

Related

blackballing · estrangement · cold shoulder · outcasting · alienation · nonverbal cues · walking on eggshells · hurt feelings · power imbalance · exclusion · snubbing · emotional manipulation · emotional abuse · toxic relationship · communication barriers · shunning · resentment · family disputes

Opposites
communication approach in conflict

silent treatmentsshouting matches

Angry vocal exchanges

airing grievances · yelling · screaming · having it out · open dialogue

emotional expression style

silent treatmentsventing

Releasing emotion verbally

unloading · outbursts · ranting · speaking one's mind · tirades

conflict resolution strategy

silent treatmentsopen communication

Unrestricted exchange of information

clearing the air · active listening · mediation · reconciliation efforts · honest conversation

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G