shooting the messenger
Punishing bad-news bearers
Shooting the messenger means punishing or blaming someone who delivers bad news, even though they didn't cause the problem.
The phrase acknowledges an ancient human tendency—kings executed bearers of defeat notices, and bosses still berate employees who report failures.
Don't shoot the messenger, I'm just telling you what happened.
The messenger becomes a convenient target for displaced anger.
- angerIntense hostile emotion
- frustrationDispleasure from blocked efforts
- defensivenessResistance to perceived attack
- heraldsMessengers who announce
- projectionSomething that extends outward
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