self-obsessed

Only about me

Self-obsessed describes someone excessively focused on themselves—their appearance, feelings, problems, or achievements—to the exclusion of others.

The term is always critical, suggesting a lack of awareness or concern for anyone else: He's too self-obsessed to notice when his friends need help.

Unlike self-absorbed, which can suggest mere distraction, self-obsessed implies an active, consuming preoccupation.

egocentric

egotistical

Excessively self-centered

inward-looking · solipsistic · egoistic · egocentrism · individualistic · oblivious · inconsiderate · thoughtless · dismissive · unaware

grandiose

arrogant

Excessively high self-regard

  • conceitedExcessively proud of oneself
  • vainExcessively proud or futile
  • pompousAffectedly grand in manner

smug · haughty · superior · entitled · boastful · pretentious · overbearing · imperious · condescending · inflated

appearance

mirror

Reflective viewing surface

selfie · vain · cosmetic · photogenic · filter · posing · camera-ready · makeover · glamorous · picture-perfect

introspective

soul-searching

Probing one's innermost feelings

brooding · fixated · dwelling · preoccupied

Categories
Opposites
focus of attention and concern

self-obsessedselfless

Concerned with others' welfare

altruistic · self-sacrificing · giving · caring · considerate

ego and humility

self-obsessedhumble

Unassuming about oneself

modest · self-effacing · unassuming · meek · unpretentious

Family

self, obsession, obsessed, obsess, self-absorbed, selfhood, self-absorption, self-obsession

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G