self-deceit

Lying to yourself

Self-deceit is the act of lying to oneself or refusing to acknowledge uncomfortable truths about one's own behavior, motives, or circumstances.

It differs from deceiving others in that the person both creates and believes the falsehood: His confidence was built on self-deceit about his actual abilities.

The term often implies willful blindness—choosing not to see what's plainly there.

illusion

fantasy

Imaginative mental wandering

daydream · mirage · make-believe · idealization · misperception · misapprehension · romanticization · dreamworld · illusion

denial

rationalization

Inventing acceptable motives afterward

disavowal · nonacceptance · dismissal · refusal · suppression · negation · blindness · obliviousness · unawareness · overlooking

justification

rationalization

Inventing acceptable motives afterward

misrepresentation · equivocation · sophistry · casuistry · apologia · spin · whitewash · cover-up · disingenuousness · blame-shifting

bias

overconfidence

Unjustified certainty in oneself

  • hubrisRuinous excessive confidence
  • egotismInflated sense of self-importance
  • narcissismExcessive admiration of oneself

misjudgment · projection · grandiosity · vanity

Opposites
honesty with oneself

self-deceitself-awareness

Insight into one's psyche

self-knowledge · self-acceptance · clear-sightedness · self-examination · self-understanding

source of deception

self-deceitgaslighting

Manipulation causing self-doubt

fraud · propaganda · manipulation · brainwashing

psychological awareness

self-deceitself-awareness

Insight into one's psyche

insight · mindfulness · self-reflection · emotional intelligence · self-understanding

Family

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