rubbed it in

Drove point home

To rub something in is to emphasize or remind someone of a failure, mistake, or embarrassing situation, often maliciously or to cause discomfort: I know I was wrong—you don't have to rub it in.

The phrase evokes rubbing salt into a wound, intensifying pain rather than letting it heal.

Related

poor sport · sore loser · shame · guilt · embarrassment · belittling · sarcasm · humiliation · antagonizing · figurative language · aggravation · regret · irritation · colloquialism · resentment · scolding · irony · provoking

Opposites
graciousness in victory/advantage

rubbed it inlet it go

Cease fixating on something

moved on

interpersonal kindness

rubbed it inheld back

Kept from advancing

said nothing

Family

rub, rubbed, rubbing, rubs, rubber

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G