romantic orientation

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Romantic orientation describes the pattern of people toward whom someone feels romantic attraction—desire for emotional intimacy, partnership, and love distinct from sexual desire.

Someone might be heteroromantic, homoromantic, biromantic, or aromantic (experiencing little or no romantic attraction).

The term gained currency alongside sexual orientation to capture cases where the two don't align: She identifies as bisexual but heteroromantic.

relationships

dating

Pursuing romantic connections

monogamy · polyamory · exclusivity · sweetheart · significant other · soulmate · beloved · paramour · suitor · admirer

attraction

crush

Compress with force

longing · yearning · desire · enchantment · fascination · captivation · smitten · enamored · lovesick · pining

identity

aromantic

Feels no romantic attraction

coming out · spectrum · label · unlabeled · fluid · LGBTQ+ · pride · self-discovery · identity

intimacy

bonding

Forming close connections

trust · heart-to-heart · tenderness · affection · companionship · rapport · warmth · attachment · devotion · cherishing

Opposites
type of attraction

romantic orientationsexual orientation

Attraction pattern by gender

sexual attraction · libido · sensual attraction · platonic attraction

identity dimension

romantic orientationgender identity

Inner sense of self-classification

biological sex · gender expression · gender · sexual identity · personality

presence of romantic attraction

romantic orientationaromanticism

Absence of romantic attraction

aromantic

Family

romantic, romance, romanced, romancing, romancer, romances, romanticism, romanticist, romanticize

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