penny for your thoughts

What's on mind?

A penny for your thoughts is an invitation to share what's on your mind, typically addressed to someone who appears lost in thought or unusually quiet: You've been staring out the window for ten minutes—penny for your thoughts?

The phrase is gentle and slightly old-fashioned, suggesting genuine interest rather than prying.

Related

moment of silence · distant · far away look · reflection · contemplation · faraway · preoccupied · reverie · inner world · question · quiet · introspective · lost · stare · blank stare · brooding · mindful · asking

Opposites
communicative demand

penny for your thoughtsspit it out

Command to speak plainly

out with it · speak up · confess · interrogation · inquisition

privacy vs. disclosure

penny for your thoughtssave it

Dismissive rebuff of excuses

mind your own business · spare me · zip it · shut up · hold your tongue

interest in others

penny for your thoughtswho asked you

Dismissal of unsolicited advice

whatever · nobody cares · indifference · talk to the hand · cold shoulder

Family

penny, pennies, thought, thoughts, thoughtful, thoughtfully, thoughtfulness, thoughtless, thoughtlessly

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G