patronising

Talking down to

Patronising is the British spelling of patronizing—treating someone as if they're inferior or less intelligent.

A patronising tone suggests condescension, speaking down to someone while pretending kindness: Don't be so patronising; I know how to use a computer.

The word carries an accusation: the patronising person may think they're being helpful, but they're actually being insulting.

condescending

condescending

Superior and dismissive manner

smug · supercilious · superior · haughty · snobbish · lofty · imperious · lordly · high-handed · overbearing

dismissive

dismissive

Showing contemptuous disregard

sneering · derisive · snide · scathing · withering · aloof · indifferent · disregard · brush off · wave away

tone

tone

Quality of sound

  • mannerWay of behaving
  • attitudeSettled way of thinking
  • airGaseous envelope surrounding Earth

delivery · inflection · intonation · phrasing · wording · register · voice · expression · affectation · unctuous

belittling

belittle

To make something seem unimportant

underestimate · undervalue · infantilize · disparage · deprecate · denigrate · dismiss · disrespect · slight · put down

Opposites
interpersonal respect

patronisingrespectful

Showing proper regard

egalitarian · humble · deferential · unpretentious · genuine

sincerity of helpfulness

patronisingearnest

Sincerely intense in purpose

unpretentious · well-meaning · straightforward · honest · direct

commercial support

patronisingboycott

Organized economic protest

shunning · avoiding · neglecting · abandoning · snubbing

Family

patronisingly

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Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G