need for approval

Wanting others' endorsement

The need for approval is a desire for validation or acceptance from others, often driving behavior aimed at pleasing people or avoiding criticism.

Everyone has some need for approval, but the phrase typically implies an excessive or unhealthy degree: Her need for approval kept her from ever disagreeing with anyone.

Psychology treats it as a pattern that can undermine authenticity and self-worth.

Opposites
psychological independence

need for approvalself-assurance

Confidence in one's abilities

self-confidence · self-validation · self-reliance · self-acceptance · self-esteem

social regard

need for approvalnonconformity

Rejection of prevailing norms

thick skin · defiance · rebelliousness · contrarianism · misanthropy

self-worth foundation

need for approvalgroundedness

State of being anchored

emotional security · self-esteem · self-respect · inner peace · equanimity

Family

need, needs, needed, needing, needy, needful, neediness, approval, approve

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G