losing one's virginity

Sexual initiation experience

Losing one's virginity is having sexual intercourse for the first time.

The phrase reflects traditional emphasis on virginity as something possessed and then given up or taken.

What counts as "losing it" varies by cultural and personal definition—for some, only penetrative sex qualifies; others draw the line differently.

She lost her virginity at sixteen.

The expression applies to all genders, though historically it carried more weight for women.

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taboo · innocence lost · intercourse · making love · autonomy · rite of passage · vulnerability · puberty · maturity · birds and bees · trust · curiosity · regret · responsibility · safe sex · personal values · anticipation · coming-of-age

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sexual experience status

losing one's virginityabstinence

Voluntary forgoing of indulgences

sexual abstinence · celibacy · chastity · virginity · continence

Family

loses, loser, losers, losses, virgin, virgins, virginal, virginity

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