live a lie

Pretend being another

To live a lie is to sustain a false version of yourself or your circumstances over time—maintaining a marriage you know is loveless, hiding your sexuality, pretending to credentials you don't have.

The phrase emphasizes the ongoing deception, not a single falsehood but a life organized around it: He lived a lie for twenty years before coming out to his family.

Related

facade · hide · mask · lying · self-delusion · disguise · fib · pretense · duplicity · cognitive dissonance · existential angst · closeted · hypocrisy · identity crisis · true self · inner conflict · authenticity · deceive

Opposites
authenticity

live a lielive one's truth

Act according to genuine self

be authentic · walk the talk · be oneself

moral integrity

live a liewalk the straight and narrow

Maintain ethical conduct

self-acceptance

live a liecome out

Emerge or be disclosed

bare one's soul · wear one's heart on one's sleeve

Family

live, lie, lives, lived, living, lively, livelihood, alive, lies

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG