lightening up

Becoming less serious

Lightening up means becoming less serious, tense, or strict.

Someone who lightens up relaxes their mood or attitude: Lighten up, it's just a joke.

The phrase often appears as an imperative, suggesting the target is being too uptight or taking something too seriously.

It can also mean easing pressure or reducing severity: The boss has been lightening up on the dress code lately.

Related

mirth · cracking jokes · relaxing · taking it easy · relief · comic relief · joviality · banter · having a laugh · illuminate · ease · silliness · letting loose · decompress · laughter · levity · liven · jesting

Opposites
emotional mood/seriousness

lightening upgetting serious

Transitioning to commitment

sobering up · darkening · tightening up · stiffening · frowning

emotional weight/burden

lightening upstewing

Cooking low and slow

wallowing · ruminating · obsessing · spiraling · catastrophizing

emotional mood/attitude

lightening updarkening

Growing less bright

sadden · souring · brooding · stiffening up

Family

light, lighten, lightens, lightened, lighter, lightest, lightly, lightness, lighting

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G