leading on

Giving false hope

Leading on is giving someone false hope or encouragement, especially romantic interest you don't intend to reciprocate.

The phrase implies deliberate deception—stringing someone along for attention, favors, or entertainment while knowing their feelings won't be returned: She accused him of leading her on for months.

Leading on can also mean guiding someone forward, though this sense is far less common.

Related

false hope · false promises · manipulation · promises · heartstrings · breadcrumbing · playing games · pulling the strings · charming · seduction · dangling · baiting · sweet talk · mixed signals · toying · empty words · guiding · pacing

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Opposites
romantic/interpersonal honesty

leading onbeing honest

Stating facts sincerely

telling the truth · coming clean · laying cards on the table · following through · committing

directness of communication

leading onspelling it out

Stating something explicitly

leveling with · cutting to the chase

treatment of another's emotions

leading onrespecting

About; on the topic

caring for · looking out for

Family

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Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG