kiss up

Flatter for advantage

Kiss up means to flatter or ingratiate oneself with someone in authority, usually to gain favor or advantage.

The behavior suggests submission—metaphorically bringing one's lips upward toward someone of higher status.

As a noun, a kiss-up is a person who habitually engages in such behavior: He's such a kiss-up to the boss.

She kissed up to the professor all semester.

sycophancy

fawn

Young deer, or flatter

  • grovelHumble oneself servilely
  • bootlickFlatter servilely for gain
  • toadyObsequious flatterer seeking favor

brownnose · apple-polish · suck up · kowtow · flatter · ingratiate · curry favor · butter up · schmooze · pander

person

sycophant

Servile praise-giver

  • toadyObsequious flatterer seeking favor
  • yes-manUncritical agreeable subordinate
  • flunkyServile subordinate

lackey · bootlicker · brownnoser · apple-polisher · flatterer · minion · doormat · hanger-on · lapdog · stooge

manner

obsequious

Servilely attentive to superiors

unctuous · slavish · deferential · cringing · groveling · smarmy · ingratiating · oleaginous · spineless · mealy-mouthed

Categories
Opposites
social deference behavior

kiss updefy

Resist or challenge openly

rebel · stand up to · talk back · disrespect · disobey

authenticity of regard

kiss uptell it like it is

Speak with complete candor

be authentic · level with

directional social behavior

kiss upkick down

Force open by stomping

punch down · lord over · look down on · bully · condescend

Family

kiss-up, kiss-ass

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G