jerk around

Waste someone's time

To jerk someone around is to treat them inconsiderably, wasting their time or misleading them with changing demands or false promises: The insurance company jerked us around for months before finally paying the claim.

Stop jerking me around and give me a straight answer.

The phrase implies frustration at being toyed with rather than dealt with honestly.

deceive

mislead

Cause false belief

dupe · trick · con · bamboozle · hoodwink · play games · mess with · put on · snow · bluff

delay

stall

Enclosed compartment or delay

hold up · put off · drag out · dodge · evade · sidestep · hem and haw · avoid · brush off · blow off

manipulate

exploit

Notable act or abuse

  • playRecreation or staged drama
  • usePut into service
  • toy withEngage halfheartedly with

control · dominate · coerce · pressure · bully · strong-arm · puppet · take advantage · pull strings

Opposites
honesty and directness in dealing

jerk aroundlevel with

Speak honestly to

play fair · tell the truth · come clean · lay it on the line · put one's cards on the table

treatment quality

jerk arounddo right by

Fulfill obligations honorably

honor · value · support · take seriously · help

honesty and directness in dealing with others

jerk aroundlevel with

Speak honestly to

tell it like it is · cut to the chase

Family

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Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG