ingratiator

Sycophantic approval chaser

An ingratiator is someone who deliberately cultivates favor with others, typically through flattery, excessive agreeableness, or calculated charm.

The word carries a negative connotation—an ingratiator's friendliness feels strategic rather than genuine: He's such an ingratiator, always laughing at the boss's terrible jokes.

sycophancy

sycophant

Servile praise-giver

  • toadyObsequious flatterer seeking favor
  • bootlickerServile flatterer of superiors
  • fawnerOne who flatters servilely

brownnoser · lickspittle · apple-polisher · yes-man · groveler · flunky · lackey · minion · hanger-on · follower

flattery

flatterer

One dispensing insincere praise

sweet-talker · smooth-talker · eulogist · gusher · charmer · wheedler · cajoler · honey-tongued · silver-tongued · schmoozer

obsequiousness

fawning

Excessive insincere flattery

  • grovelingDemeaning self-abasement before another
  • servileExcessively submissive, lacking independence
  • subservientExcessively eager to obey

obsequious · unctuous · deferential · slavish · cringing · sycophantic · bootlicking · adulatory · meek · submissive

manipulation

calculating

Coldly self-serving in strategy

artful · guileful · insidious · wily · conniving · crafty · sly · strategic · underhanded · machinating

charm

charming

Pleasantly attractive in manner

  • affableWarm and approachable
  • amiableGood-natured and likable
  • engagingPleasantly attractive, compelling attention

winsome · charismatic · suave · genial · likeable · endearing · personable · disarming · winning · courteous

Opposites
social strategy

ingratiatorantagonist

One who opposes another

alienator · provocateur · agitator · critic · detractor

authenticity

ingratiatorstraight shooter

Forthright, blunt person

truth-teller · honest broker · true friend · straight talker · genuine article

social power dynamics

ingratiatorpatron

Regular supporter or customer

benefactor · kingmaker · power broker · mentor · grantor

Family

ingratiate, ingratiating, ingratiation, ingratiatory, ingratiated, ingratiates, ingratiations

Familiarity
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Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G