ingratiatory

Seeking favor obsequiously

Ingratiatory describes behavior intended to win favor or approval, often through flattery or excessive agreeableness.

The word carries a faintly disapproving tone, suggesting the effort is calculated rather than sincere: His ingratiatory manner toward the boss fooled no one.

A less common variant of ingratiating.

obsequious

fawning

Excessive insincere flattery

groveling · servile · subservient · kowtowing · cringing · slavish · deferential · prostrate · meek · submissive

flattering

complimentary

Free or expressing praise

fawning · appreciative · commendatory · extolling · eulogistic · panegyric · encomiastic · glorifying · honoring · celebratory

manipulative

calculating

Coldly self-serving in strategy

artful · conniving · insidious · crafty · guileful · sly · wily · strategic · shrewd · underhanded

persuasive

convincing

Able to persuade

eloquent · influential · appealing · effective · plausible · smooth-talking · silver-tongued · blandishing · inveigling

charming

winsome

Sweetly charming

appealing · pleasant · likeable · charismatic · disarming · beguiling · winning · smooth · suave · affable

Opposites
social manner/approach

ingratiatoryoff-putting

Causing mild aversion

alienating · antagonistic · hostile · repellent · abrasive

sincerity/authenticity

ingratiatorysincere

Genuinely felt, not feigned

genuine · authentic · forthright · candid · honest

Family

grateful, gracious, disgrace, gratitude, congratulate, gratify, gratis, ungrateful, gratuity

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G