cajoler

Persistent persuasion artist

A cajoler is someone who cajoles—who uses flattery, gentle pressure, or persistent coaxing to persuade.

The word implies charm rather than force: He was a natural cajoler, talking his way into places others couldn't go.

A cajoler works through soft insistence rather than direct demand.

coaxing

wheedler

One who persuades through flattery

nudge · encourager · urging · prodding · persistence · patience · reassurance · soothing · beguiler

charm

charmer

One who captivates others

disarmer · sweet-talker · charisma · allure · appeal · likability · winsome · engaging · personable · ingratiating

flattery

sweet-talk

Flatter to persuade

ingratiation · blarney · smooth-talking · sycophancy · soft-soap · overpraise · apple-polishing · smarm · bootlicking · flannel

enticement

tempter

One who lures astray

baiter · teaser · tantalizer · siren · charmer · beguiler · allurer · decoy · temptation · inducement

manipulation

schemer

Crafty, deceitful planner

cunning · crafty · guileful · artful · wily · sly · slick · conniving · underhanded · duplicitous

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Opposites
persuasion method

cajolerbully

Habitual intimidator

intimidator · coercer · threatener · tyrant · browbeater

communication style

cajolerdiscourager

One who dampens motivation

disparager · critic · detractor · denouncer · naysayer

social manipulation style

cajolerstraight shooter

Forthright, blunt person

truth-teller · realist

Family

cajole, cajoling, cajoled, cajoles, cajolery, cajolers, cajolement

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