in the stars

Written above us

In the stars means fated or destined, as if predetermined by celestial forces.

The phrase draws on astrology's premise that heavenly bodies influence human affairs: Their meeting was written in the stars.

Often used romantically or wistfully about events that seem meant to be—or weren't: I thought we'd be together forever, but I guess it wasn't in the stars.

Related

karma · providence · divine intervention · fated · inevitability · cosmic plan · synchronicity · fortune · meant to be · solar eclipse · lunar phases · luck · cosmic energy · astrological sign · comet · guiding light · celestial sphere · night sky

Opposites
determinism vs. agency

in the starsup to you

Yielding choice to another

self-determined · self-made · chosen · deliberate · willed

fate vs. randomness

in the starsrandom chance

Uncontrolled probability

accidental · by chance · happenstance · luck of the draw · arbitrary

certainty of destiny

in the starsrandom chance

Uncontrolled probability

pure luck · uncertain · up in the air · undetermined · unwritten

Family

star, stars, starred, starring, starry, stardom, starlet, starlight, starfish

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G