in the driver's seat

Holding the reins

In the driver's seat means in control or in a position of authority.

The phrase draws on the literal image of whoever controls a vehicle: After the merger, their CEO will be in the driver's seat.

It emphasizes agency and decision-making power rather than being a passenger to events.

Related

command · in control · leverage · empowerment · ownership · shift · control · behind the wheel · authority · captain · calling the shots · running the show · taking charge · reins · autonomy · dominance · wheel · road trip

Categories
Opposites
control and agency

in the driver's seatalong for the ride

Present without active participation

powerless · out of control · backseat driver · helpless · adrift

power hierarchy

in the driver's seatsubordinate

One lower in rank

taking orders · subservient · dominated · outranked · dancing to someone's tune

Family

driver, seat, drive, drives, driven, driving, drivable, driveway, overdrive

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G