in control

Holding the reins

In control describes having authority or command over a situation, system, or oneself.

Someone in control is directing events rather than being directed by them: She remained calm and in control throughout the crisis.

The phrase often emphasizes composure under pressure or mastery of circumstances: He likes to feel in control.

The opposite is out of control.

Related

firm grip · self-restraint · discipline · management · focus · composure · cool head · keeping cool · calmness · confidence · clarity · governance · resilience · supervision · emotional intelligence · mindfulness · monitoring · calibration

Categories
Opposites
agency and mastery

in controlout of control

Unable to be restrained

helpless · powerless · at the mercy of · controlled · dominated

emotional/psychological state

in controlout of control

Unable to be restrained

overwhelmed · losing it · falling apart · unhinged · hysterical

order and structure

in controlout of control

Unable to be restrained

chaotic · in disarray · out of hand · unmanaged · in shambles

Family

control, controller, controlled, controlling, uncontrollable, uncontrolled, controllable, controllers, uncontrollably

Familiarity
Top 10,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G