ill at ease

Squirming inside yourself

Ill at ease describes a state of discomfort or unease, typically in social situations.

Someone ill at ease feels awkward, self-conscious, or unable to relax: He looked ill at ease in his borrowed suit.

The phrase suggests visible discomfort—fidgeting, stilted conversation, or an obvious wish to be elsewhere.

awkward

self-conscious

Uncomfortably aware of oneself

inhibited · constrained · discomfited · stiff · gauche · sheepish · abashed · tongue-tied · flustered · red-faced

anxious

worried

Troubled by uncertainty

stressed · concerned · troubled · dread · angst · anxiety · distress · trepidation · alarmed · fretful

restless

fidgety

Nervously unable to settle

  • antsyRestlessly eager or nervous
  • edgyTense and irritable
  • jitteryAnxiously restless

squirmy · restive · agitated · twitchy · impatient · on edge · jumpy · keyed up · wound up · high-strung

suspicious

distrustful

Lacking faith in others

leery · doubtful · uncertain · skeptical · apprehensive · hesitant · circumspect · cagey · watchful · on guard

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psychological comfort

ill at easeat ease

Relaxed, not tense

comfortable · relaxed · calm · serene · at peace

social confidence

ill at easeconfident

Sure of oneself

self-assured · poised · at home · in one's element · assured

Family

ill, uneasy, unease, at ease, uneasiness, malaise, ill-at-ease

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