hold one's peace

Bite your tongue

To hold one's peace is to remain silent, especially when you might otherwise speak up with an objection or opinion.

The phrase is most familiar from wedding ceremonies: Speak now or forever hold your peace.

Outside that context, it suggests deliberate restraint—choosing not to say what you're thinking: I disagreed but held my peace.

Related

hush · taciturnity · say nothing · decorum · forbearance · patience · let it go · prudence · abstention · reticence · discretion · stillness · silent treatment · civility · courtesy · deference · politeness · bite one's tongue

Opposites
vocal expression vs. silence

hold one's peacespeak up

Talk louder or opine

speak out · say one's piece · sound off · pipe up · have one's say

conflict engagement vs. avoidance

hold one's peaceprotest

Public expression of disapproval

make a scene · kick up a fuss · object · stir up trouble · cause a stir

Family

hold, holds, holding, holder, holders, holdout, holdover, behold, beholden

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G