have words

Exchange heated remarks

To have words with someone is to argue or quarrel with them, typically in a brief but heated exchange: I had words with my neighbor about his dog barking at night.

The phrase implies a confrontation that may or may not resolve the dispute.

Without the preposition, we had words suggests mutual conflict rather than one person addressing another.

Related

reprimand · read the riot act · dress down · dispute · falling-out · quarrel · tangle · lay into · call on the carpet · altercation · take to task · berate · tell off · squabble · clash · feud · spat · fight

Categories
Opposites
verbal conflict vs. verbal harmony

have wordsmake peace

Resolve conflict between parties

reconcile · make up · agree · see eye to eye · come to terms

engagement vs. avoidance

have wordsignore

Refuse to notice

avoid · stonewall · hold one's tongue · clam up · bite one's tongue

Family

have, words, behave, had, having, misbehave, misbehavior, behaving, behaved

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G